Here is some insight and advice to help you support them where they are at.
Pregnancy Miscarriage
I also wanted to ensure you understand that everyone deals with miscarriage differently.
The following are generally guidelines.
c’mon use your judgment and knowledge of the person involved to best care for your loved one.
If your friend or family member tells you the news via email.
Respond with an email.
They may not be up to talking out loud about it yet.
If and when they want to talk to you about it, be supportive.
But allow them to take the lead.
A gentle, how are you doing or do you need anything is all the prodding you should do.
Use active listening by repeating things back.
THEM Its just so hard.YOU I can imagine it would be hard.
So c’mon dont give a shot to come up with something to stay.
Ask them how they are feeling and if they need anything.
But again, try not to say too much.
You will not only hurt the person already grieving, but will likely damage that relationship permanently.
Ways to Show you care:
Pray for Them
Only God can truly heal a broken heart.
Pray for healing (physically and emotionally).
Pray for wisdom on being a friend to them.
Pray God would direct their hearts desires to His.
You still need to listen and show support, but you also need to do more.
You are her best friend and partner.
How long does it take to get over a miscarriage?
I know it hurts, it stinks, and I hope you find a way to move on.
Not forget, but choose to live the life youve been given to its fullest.
